Tag: Kissing

Q: We've been dating for over 2 years. Why doesn't he kiss me on my lips? He does on my cheeks and forehead. I know he loves me... but this bothers me sometimes.

A: He never kisses you on the lips? Ever? Or he sometimes does but other times kisses your cheek or forehead? I've never he...

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Q: How do i become a better kisser? any tips!?

A: Here's what you should do: 1. Relax2. Close your eyes and go with it. 3. Relax. 4. Don't bite, unless he'...

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Q: I've been with my boyfriend about 4 months now and he's amazing. Says he's very happy, calls all the time, go out a couple times a week, etc... except he won't kiss me. I don't get it..and I don't want to bring it up and embarass him. Explain??

A: Four months and no kiss? That's not normal. I would love to explain but I'm not sure I can. I know some people like to t...

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Q: My girlfriend told me I'm a terrible kisser. her exact words: "your kissing me like you're eating a goddamn ice cream cone!" Shes not normally that bitchy, but she also said she was frustrated and had been hinting. How do I become a better kisser?

A: Dear Terrible-Kisser-Fella: Kissing successfully is the mastery of LISP: Lips, Inside, Speed and Presence. Study my guid...

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Q: OK, hmm, I'm not active on the dating scene, can't stand the thought of having sex or kissing, but I do miss the companionship, so where can I find a similar-thinking guy?

A: Let me try to wrap my face around your query. Where can you find a guy who: A. Isn't on the dating scene B. Can't stand ...

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Q: Funny Guy - fill in the blank... Chicks like a guy who kisses like a ____. (explain)

A: Chicks like a guy who kisses like a sentient being. What I mean is, someone who is in the moment -- emotionally receptiv...

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Q: What can I do to make him kiss me more?

A: Glad you asked. There are lots of things you can do to get more smoochey in your life. 1) Ask him to kiss you more. Mayb...

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Q: A good friend of mine kissed me with no warning whatsoever! I have a boyfriend that I am deeply in love with and I never want to hurt him! Even though I didn't consent to this kiss, I'm feeling really guilty about it. How do I tell my boyfriend that this happened?

A: This is a really unfortunate situation, because while there will likely be fallout from doing so, I think you absolutely...

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Q: The guy I'm currently seeing always gets hard during our goodbye kiss. I feel bad leaving him there all horny, without "a happy ending," but I feel like it's too early to do anything sexual. Is this mean?

A: Nope. Not mean at all. Who do you trust to make the right decision about when to start sleeping with a guy, your own fee...

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Q: I have acne and slight scarring from chicken pox. The guy I'm seeing didn't seem hesitant to kiss me when I didn't wear make-up for the first time on one of our dates. Is acne not as big a deal to guys? Should I go back to wearing less make-up since I don't normally wear it?

A: Man, I remember the first time I got chicken pox. It was my birthday, and my family took me to my favorite Japanese hiba...

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Q: I've been on a few dates with a guy and I really like him. The problem is, he's a pretty terrible kisser and it worries me that maybe it means he's bad at other things, too. Should I just move on?

A: Nah, I don't think being a bad kisser is necessarily a deal-breaker -- IF he is open to some training from you on how yo...

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Q: So, my boyfriend of a year asks me for oral sex daily, and today I obliged, but he wouldn't kiss me afterward because he says it's "gross" and "that's how people get sick." He didn't finish in my mouth and I know he doesn't have any STDs, so what exactly is the problem?

A: Your boyfriend sounds like a chump. Not necessarily because of the situation, more how he handled it (like a grade-C chu...

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Q: My boyfriend doesn't like kissing me and I LOVE to kiss. In my last relationship, we kissed a lot; my new guy and I kiss about once a week. How do I get him to enjoy it?

A: If you ask me, your boyfriend's nuts. Kissing's my second favorite activity, right before eating and after something I d...

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Q: What is up with a guys' fascination with hickeys? The guy I am seeing gave me one on my...ahem...boob and wanted to give me one on my other (of course I said no). Why does he love them so?

A: The same reason guys love their children: it's proof that they've been getting laid. The hickey is a medal of honor, a s...

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Q: How do I know if I am a bad kisser?

A: He will stop kissing you and move on to other things. Like trying to get you naked. That old saying about how sex is lik...

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Q: What do you do if you're Thirteen and haven't had your first kiss?

A: Continue being thirteen. Wait a few years. Play Polly Pocket, watch the JoBros and chill the hell out. Your first kiss i...

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Q: Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?

A: Uh...You know, I thought really hard about this one, and I can't think of any legitimate reason other than maybe he does...

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Q: Would you be mad if your girlfriend of 7 years kissed another guy, while drunk, one night?

A: Yes, absolutely I would be mad. Would it end the relationship? I don't know. For some people, it might. Others might cha...

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