Tag: Making Out

Q: Boyfriend said he's ok with me sleeping with a girl, but if that'd be a guy, our relationship would be ruined. I do not understand it. I might have great, explosive sex with a girl, orgasming as I never do with him - and that's ok. But if I have a dick in my vagina that is not his - the end. Why?

A: Standards are a weird thing. Some guys just aren't threatened by the idea of their girlfriends sleeping with women becau...

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Q: I'm a teenage girl who has been with her boyfriend for a total of two months. Whilst I'm perfectly happy doing 'dirty' stuff (i.e. grinding, fondling etc.) he seems much more hesitant and wants to take it more slowly. Is he just trying to be a gentleman, or am I just being too pushy/slutty/whatever?

A: Man, I never thought going to high school in the '90s would seem puritanical and innocent. To answer your unspoken quest...

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Q: My guy doesn't get hard when we make out. Does this mean he isn't that into me? Help!

A: While I can't tell you whether or not a guy is into you, I will say the the fact he's making out with you is a better in...

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Q: okay so this guy asked me to hook up but im not sure if im a rebound... his girl friend broke up with him like three weeks ago.. but hes always hit on me and stuff... what should i do?

A: You have two choices, depending on what you want. If you just want a fun, no strings attached romp, then go for it. Atta...

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Q: I have acne and slight scarring from chicken pox. The guy I'm seeing didn't seem hesitant to kiss me when I didn't wear make-up for the first time on one of our dates. Is acne not as big a deal to guys? Should I go back to wearing less make-up since I don't normally wear it?

A: Man, I remember the first time I got chicken pox. It was my birthday, and my family took me to my favorite Japanese hiba...

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Q: I put some Bengay on before my boyfriend came over. We started kissing, and he told me I smelled really amazing that day. What?!

A: Grandma fetish, perhaps? Perhaps he's still on a high from Betty White's hilarious SNL episode. Next time you're making ...

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Q: My boyfriend doesn't like kissing me and I LOVE to kiss. In my last relationship, we kissed a lot; my new guy and I kiss about once a week. How do I get him to enjoy it?

A: If you ask me, your boyfriend's nuts. Kissing's my second favorite activity, right before eating and after something I d...

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Q: I've been told by several people that the best way to get over someone is to hook up with someone else. What do you think?

A: I wouldn't recommend banging it out with randoms until you are good and ready. Sex has a way of amplifying emotional sta...

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Q: What is up with a guys' fascination with hickeys? The guy I am seeing gave me one on my...ahem...boob and wanted to give me one on my other (of course I said no). Why does he love them so?

A: The same reason guys love their children: it's proof that they've been getting laid. The hickey is a medal of honor, a s...

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Q: How do I know if I am a bad kisser?

A: He will stop kissing you and move on to other things. Like trying to get you naked. That old saying about how sex is lik...

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Q: Why hasn't my 29 year old boyfriend of 8 weeks who I have known for over one year tried to kiss me?

A: Uh...You know, I thought really hard about this one, and I can't think of any legitimate reason other than maybe he does...

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Q: How do you tell a guy that his kissing skills need some refinement?

A: You don't tell him. Sheesh. You SHOW him. I'm a big believer that how a person kisses is more or less how they're going ...

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