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Q: Not sure if this is going to be controversial or not, but is it possible/okay to find a hook up buddy to do everything with but sex? I'm a busy college girl "virgin" (everything but sex) and I want some action, but a hook up buddy is not someone I want to have my first time with.

A: Depends on what you mean by "everything but sex". If you mean, "everything but penetration", well, if you're ruling out ...

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Q: I am a 24 year old single woman with hopes of falling in love and having a family someday. Am I naive to think that I can find true love the 'old fashioned' way, like meeting someone in the grocery store, rather than through dating websites?

A: No, I don't think you're not naive to think that. It can happen. There are a zillion ways to meet people. Think about al...

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Q: I just started college, haven't dated in a while.I met this guy a couple nights ago. He is super tall and sweet and Scandinavian, etc but at the time he was pretty drunk, so incidentally, he doesn't remember me. How do I approach him? I don't have any classes with him and he's always surrounded by intimidating people.

A: I love that you qualify this whole experience by adding the fact that this gentleman is tall and Scandinavian. I guess i...

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Q: I met a guy through online dating and I've asked him to be my date to a New Years party. The problem is I don't want to tell my friends how we met. Is it okay for me to ask him to lie to them and say we met at a bar or something if they ask?

A: Why are you embarrassed about online dating? Everyone does it. Match, OK Cupid, eHarmony, etc. It's one of the ways we m...

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Q: I am a total bibliophile and have been single for a year but I am ready to find myself a bibliophile to date. I'm 20 and at a good college but it seems impossible to find an intelligent guy. Where are all the bibliophiles hiding other than the book stores and the libraries?

A: Why not try author readings? Keep an eye out for readings at your local indie or chain bookstore. They're good for mingl...

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Q: ASAP! Please! This is prob really ridiculous & crazy BUT this guy just called my office & sounded ADORABLE (he's British. Yes, it IS that easy.) and we can't offer him a job but I took his contact info anyway. Is it super SUPER weird if I call him after work and see if he's down for a blind date? Say no please say no...

A: Sorry to burst your crush bubble, but I'm not sure asking him out is such a good idea. For one thing, your employer migh...

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Q: Meeting at a Halloween party, he gives me his card and asks me to give him a call. Does he really want me to call?

A: Maybe. You have to assume he hands out cards to a lot of people for both personal and professional reasons. Handing you ...

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Q: How can you meet good guys at a bar?

A: That's a tough one. You can certainly meet a guy at a bar. (All you have to do is stick around until last call and you'r...

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Q: I'm one of those "pretty but lonely" girls that gets double-takes and stares all the time...but I rarely get approached. What gives?! Is there anything I can do to give my would-be suitors the green light.....?

A: Take the unicorn by the horn, woman. I get so many questions from women about why they don't get approached. Some know t...

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Q: I do Ironman triathlons, own my house, have a great career but am single at 33. I realize there could be other reasons I am single but could it be that men intimidated by my success and athleticism?

A: No guy worth meeting will feel intimidated by you. Why would a guy not want to be with someone who is fit, successful, a...

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