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Q: People say things like "if you were close enough with him to sleep with him, you should be able to have a baby with him." But I don't buy it. If I want to sleep with a random guy I just met, that's my prerogative, and I'm adult enough to be responsible for my choices but I don't have to be intimate with the guy. Right?

A: Why you asking me something you already know the answer to? Sex ain't love, and there is nothing wrong with hooking up f...

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One Night Only?

One of mankind's most significant inventions ever has been "the loophole." Yes, I view the loophole as an invention because one day some caveman and some cavewoman were arguing and the man got out of being in trouble on a...

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Q: Ok so i had a one night stand. I am very much aware of the rule of not contacting the person, but will i ever have the chance of being a friend? I just dont know how to approach him. Help!

A: The main rule is: don't force it. Hooking up once is not an indicator of anything beyond sexual attraction. But, try to ...

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Q: I just started dating this guy and we're very physically attracted to each other that we ended up having sex on our first date. Now he wants to step back to "take it slow", wait on the sex to see if we can develop our relationship into something more--see where it goes. Is there a catch?!

A: There is something to be said about making sure you've got some solid bread before slathering on the sex-onnaise. This g...

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Q: I'm pregnant from a one night stand. Definitely can't have this baby and going to have an abortion. Do I still tell the guy?

A: You do whatever you need to do to get through this. Tell him, don't tell him. It's your decision. If he's a good guy, he...

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Q: you know what i don't get, guys who feel the need to "butter you up" when all they want is a one night stand! Like i am ok with the one night thing but come on, just be honest about it! no need to compliment me and laugh at my jokes all night and make me feel fabulous to then just say seeeeee ya after they come, ugh

A: Well, speaking from personal experience, "Baby, let's screw!" is a terrible pick-up line and results in a pointy high he...

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Q: What is the etiquette of one night stands? I don't want to offend the guy, I just want non-awkward-if-we-ever-see-each-other-again sex. A guy I slept with told me that he was "surprised."

A: Wow. To quite a few guys reading this (who play-the-field), you are a dream come true. You're like a girl saying, "I hav...

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Q: HEY HEY HEY! Big question, and seriously now... what its the etiquette of one night stands? (what I mean, I don't want to offend the guy, I just want non-awkward-if-we-ever-see-each-other-again sex). A guy I slept with told me that he was "surprised" I left so soon... was supposed to stay all night...?

A: Interesting question, and one which rarely comes up. Most one nighters are the result of being totally wasted, so it is ...

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Q: I hit it off with this guy I met last year. We ended up sleeping together. He stopped talking to me because he "hits it and quits it". I'm going to be seeing him this Thursday. I was wondering if I had a chance with this guy or not?

A: A chance at what? A chance at sleeping with him, and then weeping over a wedge of coffee cake because he won't call you ...

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Q: Does casual sex ever really exist between two people?

A: Yes, casual sex exists. But it's always more casual for one person. I also believe it can only exist between two people ...

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The Things Guys Say And What They Really Mean

As part of my court-mandated community service (long story), I'd like to lead you through this helpful look at a few things guys like to say and what they really mean when they say those things. Don't think of us...

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Why You Went Home With That Total Douche

You went home with that turbo jackhole at the club because you were a lip glossed sweat tornado dancing on the bar, and by the time he asked you if you wanted to see the "magic trick" he learned at...

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