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Q: I'm a relatively militant agnostic. I met a guy, and our chemistry is greater than anything I've ever had before. However, there is a sticking point in that he is a devout, practicing Catholic, which leads us to butt heads on a few issues. Is it possible that we could be happy together?

A: Of course you can! As you said, you really like this guy and assuming that you are in a relationship with him, he cares ...

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Q: MM, I keeping meeting guys that are really nice, intelligent, and physically attractive, but I don't find myself sexually attracted to them. Some guys that I am sexually attracted to aren't as physically attractive as the guys whose personalities I like. Does this make sense?

A: Makes perfect sense. You know what you want in a man. Your body has other ideas. Sexual attraction is a deep and powerfu...

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Q: What should you look for in a partner? Is it best to share core beliefs/values? Some interests/hobbies? Although opposites attract, they don't usually make lasting relationships. But too much in common leads to boredom, and never challenging each other. So how to find the 'just right' balance?

A: This one has been bugging me since I saw it in the question queue last week. Have written about it a fair number of time...

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Q: Hes conservative, very catholic, and family oriented. And a good guy. Im liberal, atheist,+dont want kids. Can two people who have different political views make it work? Or will we grow to hate each other? We just started dating and I can tell were very similar, but sooo very different also. How do I make sense of us?

A: Depends. Do you define yourself as a liberal atheist who doesn't want kids? Or are you just a human being, like the rest...

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The GuySpeak Guys On Men Who Marry 'Bridezillas,' Controlling Boyfriends, Dudes with Female Friends, and More

Bridezillas viewers have questions, we've got answers! As part of our ongoing efforts to be the world's foremost relationship experts, the GuySpeak gang took questions from fans of WE tv's hit show Bridezillas. We asked Bridezilla viewers to leave their...

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Q: I need your advice. I'm a 20 yr old college student. Why is it that every time I get to know a guy (that I've had a crush on etc) I always end up doubting myself and my attraction to them? Oh he likes to listen to polka...that won't work and I move on and question why I'm still single. Help!

A: Are the guys you crush on, then get to know, totally inappropriate? You are terrible at picking guys, but you'll improve...

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Similarity Is Over-rated

Been getting a huge number of questions recently on one particular theme, for example:I'm an actress he's an artist. The common sense part of my brain (which I fiercely try to ignore, otherwise wouldn't still be paying off my degree...

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Q: What are the chances of a serious relationship developing between a stoner and a straitlaced gal?

A: A union of a stoner and straight-laced can be a great match. The perfect yin and yang or yin and bong as the case may be...

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Mistakes: The 6 Biggest Ones You Will Ever Make

Had a question a while back and this came up in the comments and caught my eye as a worthwhile blog topic, if combined with the 6 regular types of questions we get.The six biggest mistakes women make in relationships,...

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Q: MM- we hear all the time that girls love bad boys.....but I have found that a large number of guys love really mean and generally crazy girls too. Can you explain, or debunk this odd phenomenon please? Why do nice guys love being tortured by horribly innappreciative and crazy girls?

A: To answer this, we need to listen to the words of that wise relationship sage, Paula Abdul. Opposites Attract. Trite. Ye...

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Q: Hi MM, I'm a big fan of your writing. Would you be able to venture to guess why we, as women, are attracted to mysterious guys?

A: Oh, there is no need to guess this one. Women like surprises. Non threatening ones at least. After all, which do you pre...

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Liars, Cheaters and a Few Good Men: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

How do you forgive a cheater? Or tell if your husband's cheating? What if he says he'll never cheat again? And if your booty call doesn't answer, is he cheating? What if you're a fashionista, he's a physicist - will...

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