Tag: Orgasms

Q: Why do I smell like sex most of the time? It's not a bad smell just different and makes me very self-consciousness. My BF says his ex never smelled like that. I never smelled like sex with my ex either. Is having an orgasm making me smell like sex? My BF always makes me orgasm and my ex never did.

A: Is anybody else aside from your boyfriend saying anything to you about this smell? The reason I ask is that honestly, un...

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Q: I am very embarrassed by this but my boyfriend never says or comments about it but I always fart like to seconds before I orgasm from him fingering me. Do you think its gross or bothers him. I don't know how to stop it :(

A: People don't seem to realize how powerful your lower ab and groin muscles can actually be, at least until they run into ...

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Q: Generally speaking ,is it not easy or take sometimes for man to orgasm during the oral sex? I gave BJ for my man two times and he came twice,i don't have any former experience so i don't know he was fake it or not, but he did ejaculated.

A: First of all, if he ejaculated, he likely had an orgasm. The two are pretty much inseparable without either a very weird...

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Q: I am a virgin, but I masturbate often. I can have a clitoral orgasm but when I masturbate with a vibrator or use sex toys/penises in my vagina, I don't feel anything. Does this mean that when i have sex I wont be able to reach a vaginal orgasm..?

A: It may, it may not. Whether or not vaginal orgams and the g-spot actually exist are up for debate; the reality is we don...

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Q: This is an awkward question: when I orgasm sometimes my whole body spasms so much my boyfriend has to pin me down....is this ok??? I get the impression from his reactions that it's not normal but I'd like to not ask specifics about his experience with other female orgasms...

A: Is this OK? Is this OK? No, it's not ok. It's awesome. Do you know how many ladies lay there still like a mime in Times ...

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Q: Is it possibly to faint from orgasm? I've never experienced "the big O," but was masturbating in the Jacuzzi the other night and as things were getting super good, I swear I blacked out for just a few seconds. When i came to, my fingers and toes were tingling like they'd fallen asleep. Weirdest thing ever.

A: (Yes, I realize that Mystery Man already answered this one. But we GuySpeak guys are all beautiful snowflakes--no one an...

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Q: DO I HAVE TO GO DOWN ON HER IF SHE GOES DOWN ON ME?

A: What are you, a doucheknuckle? Of course you go down on her if she goes down on you. You go down on her even if she does...

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Q: From a male POV what does it feel like to orgasm???

A: It feels like thundercats, which is my new way of saying "awesome." You know that moment before you sneeze? Your body sh...

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Q: My boyfriend and I have been together for a few years now and recently our sex life has gotten stale... We talked about it and he wants me to be "more slutty"and initiate more. Any suggestions on how to do this?

A: When a guy says he wants his woman to be "slutty," what he means is he wants her to be more aggressive. And not just agg...

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Q: Sexually speaking.. while being intimate.. is it ok to pleasure Myself ? In conjunction w sex of course with my mate ? I don't want my man to think he isn't doing the job right but I find it enhances things for me in certain positions.

A: Yes, do what you have to do to get your cookie. You deserve it. Besides, a healthy sexual relationship is one where both...

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Q: I recently had a threesome with a guy I am casually seeing and his ex-girlfriend. During the festivities I think they reached across me and high fived. This is not a good sign in it?

A: It depends on your perspective. A high-five, or knuckle bump even, is a preferable review of your carnal assets than, sa...

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Q: Sorry to be explicit, but I can't get him to orgasm! Never had this problem before. I know it affects things, but...how much? Is this a real dealbreaker or is it okay that, except for the occasional pang of guilt, I'm not about to kill myself over it?

A: I wouldn't even feel guilty, provided your man luh-vah isn't self-conscious or frustrated about it. Let's flip the situa...

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Q: I'm 27, have had diverse lovers (age/experience) but never an orgasm during sex. Nothing physically wrong w/ me, just hasn't happened. I'm a faker (I know, no lecture necessary). Don't want to fake it anymore...Should I discuss it with my next lover?

A: Don't "discuss," it with him. "Discussions" are for performance reviews, book clubs, and his action figure collection. W...

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