Tag: Porn

Q: How do men tend to feel about a girl that likes to watch porn? And should I keep my preference for gay m/m porn to myself?

A: My gut says no. Why? Because men are easily jealous and insecure. A woman who loves porn means she is into sex and when ...

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Q: How can I stop being insecure over porn?

A: Start with remembering he's with you, not them, and that it's fantasy: he doesn't want to be with porn stars in real lif...

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Q: My boyfriend seems to be obsessed with porn that has older ladies in it, and as a girl who is a lot younger than him, it kind of makes me insecure. Should I be worried that I am not what he wants

A: No. Porn is about the unattainable, and most guys like it that way. It may be in his fantasy, but if he's with you, you'...

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Q: I'm secretly on this porn website where I get paid for XXX videos and pics. I could earn a lot more money if I was doing those with a partner. Should I ask my boyfriend of 4 months to do some with me or would he be freaked out and maybe tell everybody? Perhaps he would find the idea exciting and we could split profits?

A: Honestly, in your situation, I wouldn't. Not because he'd tell everybody, although he probably would tell his friends, b...

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Q: Yo! Can a girl have fantasies about famous, inaccessible people? Or is there something wrong with this? I imagine guys have a very rich fantasy life (porn), but porn is not my thing. My boyfriend was perturbed when he got wind of my interest in Tom Brady, but I say, relax. It's just my version of fantasy football.

A: Yo, your man sounds like a bit of a Silly Billy, shall we say. His working logic on sexuality and the gender specific do...

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Q: My dad has loads of porn in his computer. He's 60 something. My mom and he have been married for over 25 years. She's not into computers so I'm guessing she has no idea. I know this is supposed to be "normal" but I still think it's weird.

A: Of course it's weird. He's your dad. No one wants to think about their parents that way. But what are you going to do? S...

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Q: If he really cares about me, would he leave me if i only let him watch certain porn [only stuff like normal sex, oral sex,love making,no rape,no anal,no orgy,no bondage, no young girls or degrading stuff. Or if i don't do oral unless he returned the favor, or don't let him go to strip clubs?

A: Realistically, I think the strip clubs and oral belong in one category, and the porn belongs in another. Yeah, if he car...

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Q: I have been dating this guy for almost a year now. He's the only guy I have been with that likes to watch porn. He says he don't like girls watching it with him because it takes the fun away. He also likes to watch videos of girls shaking their butts. How am I supposed to handle this? Does this mean he could cheat?

A: First, let's clear something up: he's the only one who has admitted to you that he watches porn. The rest did too, they ...

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Q: Why are the guys in porn vids so big? They look like it would hurt.

A: Dear Questioner, You've unwittingly answered your own question, in part. Most porn is male made and male consumed - Ther...

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Q: I'm a straight girl in a happy relationship. Sometimes I like to watch lesbian porn, sometimes gay men porn but honestly very rarely straight porn. I have a great sex life with my boyfriend and I am so attracted to him, so is this weird? Should I be ashamed?

A: Ashamed of what? It's A-OK to have sexual feelings and, for that matter, to watch porn. Your porn viewing habits are not...

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Q: Is porn ok?

A: Boy, that's not a loaded question or anything. Porn is tricky because it sits smack in the center of a whole bunch of is...

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Q: My boyfriend looks at other girls online before having sex with me. Is this common? It makes me feel really crappy about myself.

A: Nothing says I want you like masturbating to girl-on-girl porn. That sentence doesn't make much sense and neither do his...

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Q: MM please help! I feel like my guy just isn't attracted to me at all. He can watch porn and cum in minutes but anytime we mess around/have sex it takes him ages- going on 45 mins+. Am I over exaggerating or is he just not into me?

A: OK, it's the porn thing again. PORN AIN'T SEX. Look, I am gonna be blunt and slightly personal. I watch porn, like prett...

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Q: Why do porn videos always end with the guy ejaculating in the girl's face?

A: Because this is how babies are made. And above all pornography is a sound teaching tool for our youth. Or, here's anothe...

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Q: Are the woman in comic books just as bad as the girls in porn? I know they are cartoons but they have completely unrealistic bodies too and he read comics all the time.

A: Well, on the one hand, you do have a point. There are a lot of absurdly-proportioned Pamela Anderson/Jenna Jameson-types...

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Q: My twin brother and I are blonde, blue-eyed and muscular and "well-endowed." We're in college and the offer we just received is kind of hard to pass up--$25,000 to "perform" sexually for a porn film producer. Should we do it?

A: Do you want a career in porn? Because if you and your brother take that check, you've all but guaranteed that you'll spe...

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