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Things That Make You Go 'What?!'

I was trawling the net the other day, looking for parental abuse cases (don't ask why, you REALLY don't want to know) and came across a true gem.A pair of children sue their mother for "bad mothering." Now you know...

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Q: I'm told I'm an 8-1/2 and hot. I work out and keep in shape and always look presentable. But yet my boyfriend of 1 year is constantly picking apart my assets...telling me I need a boob lift, that my face is starting to sag - you name it. Meanwhile he has a gut and he's not that attractive. What gives with him?

A: When I read this I get more frustrated with you than him. Not because he isn't a shameless, emotionally stunted, abusive...

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Q: Whats the most annoying this a girl could do?

A: TYPOS. Hands down....

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Funny Guy Interviews ALINA SIMONE

Alina Simone is what we in the business call "A Triple Threat". She sings like a sultry bird; writes like a hawk and is funnier than Big Bird and Larry Bird combined. That is to say, I'm a big fan...

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You Can Pick Your Boyfriend, But Can You Pick his Bacne?

Every once in awhile my wife looks up to me while she's peeing and tells me that she just doesn't trust the authenticity of a relationship unless it's members can urinate (and more) in front of each other. I...

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Q: I've been dating a guy for 6 months. We get along great and the sex is amazing. He's VERY committed to his family and it leaves very little time for us to see each other. He says I'm only his 3rd serious relationship (he's 33) and it's all starting to make sense now because family is 1st with him. Should I bail now?

A: Your amazing sex with this man is of no consequence to this question, but I thank you for the heads up. You have stumble...

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Q: How can I get my boyfriend to buy me a piece of diamond jewelry without outright asking him?? We've been together 4 years, and we're not looking into marriage anytime soon so I'm not talking about an engagement ring here; I just think that after 4 years, it's time for some sparkly jewelry, darnnit!!!

A: Any time you work towards "getting" something in a relationship it sort of ruins the point, no? Gifts, material or other...

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Q: I have Crohn's disease, which is not what we can call a glamourous condition. I'm not ashamed of it but obviously it has to come up at some point with guys (I'm gonna get sick and can't just disappear), how, and at which point do i share this? is this a Deal Breaker?

A: Here's the thing about people: we can be picky and unrealistic. Anything can be a deal-breaker. Even "glamorous conditio...

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Q: Am I supposed to be flattered when somebody tells me, "You're my stress relief"?

A: Unless you're a punching bag, tub of Vaseline or a pedicurist, no this isn't flattering... on its own. But it's importan...

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Q: I hate people. Is this something I need to fix?

A: It's not something you need to do, but something you may want to look into. Don't get me wrong, people on the whole are ...

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Q: My boyfriend hasn't been to the dentist in years. His gums sometimes bleed and I'm worried they're infected. I've told him I'm worried about it, but he shrugs it off. I think he's embarrassed. How do I get him to go to the dentist?

A: How do I get him to go to the dentist? Wrong question. Correct question? How do I get you to understand that pleading fo...

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Q: What are the chances of a serious relationship developing between a stoner and a straitlaced gal?

A: A union of a stoner and straight-laced can be a great match. The perfect yin and yang or yin and bong as the case may be...

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Q: I just started dating this guy and we're very physically attracted to each other that we ended up having sex on our first date. Now he wants to step back to "take it slow", wait on the sex to see if we can develop our relationship into something more--see where it goes. Is there a catch?!

A: There is something to be said about making sure you've got some solid bread before slathering on the sex-onnaise. This g...

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Q: I feel like I have lost my personality somewhere in my relationship.I have lost my sense of humour /fun side/ sexy side/ mysterious edge. I am just a big bla. My boyfriend expects me to be this sweet person all the time and I just feel like a total fake.

A: The crux of this issue is that you're subscribing to some nutty ideas. Your boyfriend's expectations of you should reall...

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Q: An ex of mine said that if I was still single at 35 and had no kids, he would have kids with me. WTF? Why would he say that? He said this while we were still together.

A: It's not an uncommon practice for a guy and girl friend pair to create a "just in case/one day" plan. A pinky-swear prom...

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Q: Once a hitter, always a hitter? I heard rumors of my bf hitting his ex. He hasn't ever showed a sign that he would ever touch me like that. Should I be concerned?

A: ONCE A HITTER, ALWAYS A PROBLEM. Writing to me indicates that you are concerned about this, and you are right to be. I'm...

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Q: I know a guy who is in a relationship with a girl and they don't love each other, he is unhappy, they argue all the time. It all around is a bad situation. The reason he stays is 'for the kids'. what do you think of this, if a child sees bad all the time?

A: I totally agree with your assessment. Staying together for the kids is a ridiculous excuse and emotionally dishonest. If...

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Q: How do i tell the guy im dating that im a virgin. It feels akward to just say "btw i never had sex before". what is the proper time and way to tell him?

A: The proper time to tell him is 4pm. That way he will already have gone fox hunting, had his afternoon bourbon and read a...

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Q: What are your thoughts on breaks in relationships? I once knew a guy who "took a break" because he wanted to bang another chick and then he tried to get back w/ his gf. That kind of break is wrong, right?

A: Yes, of course it's wrong. It's like calling a "time out" in a wrestling match or screaming "do over" after a strike ou...

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