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Q: Am I unreasonable for hating on my boyfriend for gaming 4 hours everyday with teenage boys and girls (as well as posting links on the teenage girl's facebook wall)?He thinks Im over-reacting, I think hes a 27 year old who needs to grow up! I love him, but his actions are ridiculous! I cant take it anymore.

A: I don't game at all. So I have no idea if gaming for four hours a day is ridiculous or not. But I will say that keeping ...

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If You're Faking It, Should You Ever Tell?

We get some fairly interesting questions here at Guyspeak to go along with some of the totally asinine, unintelligible, and downright hilarious ones we receive. Such brings me to the point I was this morning when I started to answer...

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Can You Pleasure Yourself If You're In A Relationship?

I swear I should be paying some radio stations royalties for some of the ideas they bring to the table. Just yesterday, I was listening to a morning show and heard the tail end of a conversation that split along...

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Sometimes When You Win, You Really Lose

I don't know who the first person to say the title quote was, but I know I straight jacked it from the movie, White Men Can't Jump. The full quote goes like this:  "Sometimes when you win, you really lose,...

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Q: Truth please! I met this inexperienced guy. Taught him a few things and tried a few tricks on him he had never heard of . So ..will a man stick around if the sex is toe curling ohmygodimspeechless amazing? I feel like i made him feel like " the man" so nextbis he on the hunt with his newly gained bag of tricks ?

A: Great sex definitely helps, but at the same time, that's not all relationships thrive on. Do you and he have anything in...

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The Lovecycle

Had an FB request come in during a chat, for a blog post about the stages of a relationship. Liked the idea a lot, but it ain't normally my beat, not being something to be sarcastic about. So, I called...

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Q: My mom has always advised me that even though I can beat a guy at something, I should always let him win to feed his ego. It seems silly to me and I have a hard time changing my behaviour to let myself loose every time. I think we healthy amount of competition. What do you think about competition with a SO?

A: You're right. It is silly to have to lose just feed a man's ego. But if we're all under the agreement that men have very...

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Is Snooping Really A Necessary Evil?

Sometimes the comments to the answers to questions that are asked provide the best source of blog fodder. Say that three times fast. The other day, I was asked a question about cyber cheating. Namely, a young lady found out...

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Q: I have a good friend who has been dating a guy for about 4 years. Since the beginning, they have argued endlessly over the most ridiculous stuff. They break up almost every week and then who has who to hear about? Me. Is there a nice way to say, "Look if you're not gonna leave, then at least stop talking about it?"

A: No, there isn't a nice way to say that. In fact, I think that the best way to say what you want to say is exactly how yo...

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Braxton Family Values: The Relationship Edition

This latest episode of "Braxton Family Values" was doing a whole lot. It was an interesting focus on the three women with prominent relationships on the show: Trina, Towanda, and Tamar. All three of them are in various stages of...

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Q: We go out with friends on weekends occasionally & we watch football together sober every Sunday. We always do it after the game, sober. He says he loves my boobs, he's attentive, makes sure I'm satisfied & I hang around after until I feel like going back to my place. Is this going anywhere or are we good "buddies"?

A: Honestly, I think the door's open to more, but you've got to walk through it. If you're going out with friends some week...

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Q: Pulling back or in the midst of getting dumped with "the fade-out" approach? How can a girl spot the difference? ...or is the pull-back just when a man/woman changes his/her mind?

A: There are a few signs that he's "fading out." Pulling back means maybe you see each other once or twice a week instead o...

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10 Reasons Why Halloween Is The Perfect Relationship Holiday

Tell Valentine's Day to kick rocks. Call up Christmas and say, "you can keep your three hoes, Santa." Message the Ides of March and tell it to...well, I don't know exactly what people do on the Ides of March aside from...

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He doesn't say I love you anymore! He doesn't watch movies with sex! He doesn't get that his BFF wants him! GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

Is a haunted house a good date? Is a married guy who works at a department store good BF material? Is there a problem if a guy can't get it up? Is there a problem if he won't watch movies...

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The Rules Of Fair Fighting

Fact: If you are in a romantic relationship, you will fight with your partner at some point in time. Yeah, I know, your relationship is all hearts and butterflies and you can't imagine ever disagreeing with your snookums, but you...

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Since You Love Me, That's Your Job Now Fella!

I was reading some story recently (forgive me for I cannot find the link to this story to save my life) about this woman who said she uses her man as her personal footwarmer in bed. I can't remember exactly...

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Q: I've been having a rough time lately with an ongoing illness and I've had to rely on my bf (of a few years) a lot when I'm sick. I think he's getting annoyed with me because I used to be the one doing things for him, and it seems like we aren't having fun together anymore. I don't want to be a burden, just a gf! Help?

A: Long term illness is a son-of-a-bitch on so many fronts. Often it's hard to even separate where the actual illness ends ...

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Q: I have f*cked up genes and my family f*cked up my life. Now I have cemented walls around my heart. Theyre like....say 3 feet thick and 100 feet tall. Yeah, hard to get in. I want to be able to love and have meaningful relationships, but these walls are not coming down. Im pretty f*cked. How do I let someone in?

A: I've been brain chewing on a concept I read a few weeks ago: Life is about taking responsibility for things you are not ...

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Yes, I Will Marry You But Kissing Is Out Of The Picture

Life is a funny farce. Just think about the romantic escapades people go through trying to woo somebody. And then that first kiss and the first time you smang. It's the stuff of legends. Little angel-like choir members sing classical...

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Q: I've been dating a new guy for a couple weeks. Things were GREAT, but then one of his relatives became very ill. I've done my best to be supportive, such as texting him on occasion to see how he's holding up, but his replies are cold or rude. I think he's taking his stress out on me. Is it a sign for me to get out now?

A: No, it's a sign that you are currently living in a period of unknown with this guy. You don't have enough facts or relat...

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