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Q: Oh great WA, I need advice. A co-worker and I have have been growing close. He flirts a bit and has been inviting me to his place for dinner among other activities. The problem he is in a relationship and I don't know where I need to draw boundaries. Should I wait until something significant happens before I set them?

A: No, set them now before something "significant" happens. Boundaries are useless once you've already crossed them. As for...

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If You're Faking It, Should You Ever Tell?

We get some fairly interesting questions here at Guyspeak to go along with some of the totally asinine, unintelligible, and downright hilarious ones we receive. Such brings me to the point I was this morning when I started to answer...

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Q: do men lose their mind before orgasm or do they still realize what going on around them

A: Funny you mention that. Yes, yes we do. If a man was about to finish inside Scarlet Johansson just as a pack of coyotes ...

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Q: What's the best way a girl can ask for oral sex without seeming or sounding too domineering? I've had guys tell me approach is a little too aggressive.

A: Oral sex needs to be asked for: that's why it's called Oral - Sex. Before we open wide we often need to open up and say ...

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Q: Hey Panama, Is it really true that everything a man does in his life revolves around sex? I've heard this multiple times before and it's hard for me to believe.

A: Maybe not EVERYTHING, but I do think that a solid 95 percent of the things that men do are in some way, shape, or form i...

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Q: Help me, Wise Ass! My bf loves sucking my nipples but I can't feel a thing. What is wrong with me? Is that normal? He says he knows women and can train me to like it but I don't see how. I feel like a freak because it does nothing for me.

A: There's nothing wrong with you. Every woman is different. Some like nipple play, some don't. Some love getting oral sex,...

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Q: While my sexual conquest list is small, it seems that most guys are privy to the jack-hammer style of love making. Is this a default for guys? I must say, I'm underwhelmed. If I direct men to go slower, they're not entirely pleased. How should I approach the request to have them respond with a little more enthusiasm?

A: Nope. You've just been sleeping with guys who are bad at sex. Guys who jackhammer away in bed are doing it wrong. And, y...

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Quick Answers Of The Month, Vol. 23

Asked and answered, short and sweet.What does it mean when a guy is always pulling on his penis like it's irritated?It means he's four.How can I find out if my husband truly wants children?Get pregnant.Would a guy care if you...

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The ELNA BAKER VIDEO INTERVIEW Series: Part I

Elna Baker wears many backpacks. She's an award winning author, a stand-up comic, a talent show host, part of Ira Glass's acclaimed This American Life team, and a former Mormon. Yes, in truth we all wear many bags, but something...

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Paradise Lust: You Are the Most Beautif...

I'll never forget the Caribbean getaway I took with my ex-girlfriend. She was what layman's often refer to as totally f*cking hot. She had a smile that made men weak, a body that made them hard and a steaming...

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Q: when it comes to sex, do men like bigger women?

A: If the Internet has taught us anything, it's that no matter what your body type, there's somebody who finds you attracti...

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Q: I'm in the early twenties and a lot of my male acquatiances genuinely believe that the size, shape and color of a woman's labia is an indication of how many sexual partners she has had. I'm really worried about the sexual ignorance these 'adults' have. Why are they so stupid?

A: I think it is because men are taught precious little about women's bodies as they grow up. Girls typically learn about t...

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Q: I'm in the early twenties and a lot of my male aquatiances genuinely believe that the size, shape and colour of a woman's labia is an indication of how many sexual partners she has had. I'm really worried about the sexual ignorance these 'adults' have. Why are they so stupid?

A: That is a good question. And the answer is: I don't know. People are dumb in general so wondering why sexual education w...

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Q: My bf never wants to have sex, in fact, he seems to want to avoid the slightest reference to it. The last time we made an "attempt" at sex was in December, before that it was September (still only an attempt). He says it's not me (but gets angry when I mention it.) Hell is he gay, asexual, psychologically deranged?

A: This is another one of those "how the heck would I know?" questions, though it is obvious that there's some sexual dysfu...

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Q: I recently started dating a guy that I really like. At the end of each date we have these passionate goodbye kisses but that is the end of it. I would like things to get a little more intimate but he never seems to take it there. I've even tried giving hints but to no avail. What gives?

A: Who knows? Maybe he's shy. Maybe he doesn't want to rush things. Maybe he's a virgin. Maybe he's too dense to pick up on...

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Q: Help! I cannot keep up with my hubs in the sex dept since I've had our daughter. He constantly wants it, I just want sleep. I hate the fact that he watches porn and masturbates but I just don't kno what to do. Opinion?

A: I understand your quandary here, but realistically, you're both being unfair to each other. Your husband shouldn't be pu...

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Q: should I put a cookie in my girlfriends vajayjay and then eat it

A: As you've heard me preach before, "should" is a tricky word. I should have shiny white teeth and a nine inch schlong, bu...

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FUNNY GUY UNLEASHED: "What's the funniest thing you have done with your penis?"

As soon as I read this question an answer shot through my mind. And while GuySpeak really shouldn't be a forum to share my own phallic phunnies, I do remember from my SAT classes that your first answer is almost...

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Q: So I read that girls who are more attractive/hot are usually worse in bed because "guys are so pumped to be with such a hottie that the girl can lie back and enjoy the ride", where as less attractive girls are better in bed because they work for it. Opinions?

A: Yeah, I'd stop reading lad mags for sex advice. That has the smell of "Go for the uggos to get laid, bro!" instead of an...

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Q: what does it mean when a guy tells you he wants to eat you out

A: Again, I applaud you for asking me instead of typing this query into Google or simply asking your local clergyman for th...

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