Tag: Stalking

Q: Ok, seriously BFF. I need your help. My first love/first guy I slept with and I broke up 3 years ago. It was REALLY messy and I moved 3,000+ miles to get away from him, but I can't stop googling/internet stalking him and his wife/my ex friend. What the eff?!? I need to stop, but I can't! Help. What can I do? Please.

A: Well you need to take a two pronged attack. 1) you need to just stop. Like literally. Actually stop doing it. Easier sai...

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Q: Why is it that when a man relentlessly pursues a girl its cute or romantic, but when a girl does the same its viewed as pathetic or even slutty? It seems nearly impossible to woo a man who is uninterested, yet a girl who is uninterested needs only to be worn down with romantic gestures and time.

A: This is something I've been wondering about for literally years. You're right, it's a double standard, and it's a danger...

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Q: One of my friends just admitted to creating fake online profiles to check up on her men (previous and current). Your take?

A: My take is: that sucks. Building fake online profiles for the express purpose of spying and prying into previous boyfrie...

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Q: OK MM...got a TOUGH one! :( I "over-called" this guy I've been seeing for 4wks. Several calls, text, email 2 days after our last date on Sunday. We had tentatively planned dinner for Tues, but he never confirmed. Yes, he said HE would call. Bad judgment on my part and havent heard from him. How do I fix this? Thanks

A: About the only way you can fix this one is to stay away from him, which may or may not work, but it's your only hope. Gu...

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Q: Boy meets Girl on dating website. Boy lives in same apartment complex as Girl.Boy and Girl went out ONE TIME. Boy is interested in Girl. Girl is not interested in Boy and says so. Boy sends Girl creepy texts. How long does girl wait before calling police?

A: A story! I love stories! Especially Boy meets Girl stories! Yay. Oh, this isn't a romantic comedy. There is a big differ...

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Q: CREEPER?! Do men creep/stalk their exes?? It doesn't have to be anything big or threatening, but you know trying to figure out what's going on in their lives over the internet, through common friends, etc. I mean we all know women creep on their exes, but do men do it too and they're just better at hiding it?

A: I'm not even sure men are better at hiding it. How many women have had an ex call you up after months JUST to say hello ...

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Q: I just started seeing this girl and everything is great about her BUT she has a crazy ex issue. He's been trying to mess up what we have going. I don't know if I should end this with her and move on or should I give this a chance?

A: How about a compromise? Be a good boyscout, and be prepared. Pack an emotional parachute and proceed with caution. Now, ...

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Q: i am attracted to my boss. kept the company ethics while i was there by not dating a fellow staff and boss, i am no more working in this company and still can't get over him. what should i do? should i let him know i love him?

A: Congratulations to you on keeping to your ethics at your old job. A lot of people say they don't date at their jobs, but...

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Q: After the first date, is it bad if a gal calls up to three times to ask him out on another? Each call would be spaced out about every two or three days and would have a voice message,

A: Why stop at three? Call him every day, every hour on the hour, until he capitulates and agrees to go out with you just t...

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Q: My stepsister, a college freshman, met a guy and they studied together once, but she's not interested. Now he won't leave her alone -- calls, shows up at her house, sends angry texts. She asked him to back off, but he hasn't. What should she do?

A: I think she should go out with the poor guy. Clearly he's just lonely and needs to get laid, so she should just take one...

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Q: Am I crazy to seriously contemplate stashing a hidden camera in my fiance's apartment so I can see what really happens at his bachelor party?

A: I think the more pressing question is: are you crazy for marrying a guy you trust so little that you feel the need to se...

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