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Q: How do you know when your man is truly sorry for cheating?

A: The only way to know for sure is if he never does it again. Other than that, you either believe him when he says he's so...

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Q: Will my guy think I'm vain if I send him sexy photos of myself? What if I edit them (by this I mean make changes like making the photo black and white, not blowing up my boobs ten times and airbrushing my cellulite out using photoshop)?

A: Think very carefully before you send him sexy pics, not because he'll think you are vain--he won't--but because you know...

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Is Snooping Really A Necessary Evil?

Sometimes the comments to the answers to questions that are asked provide the best source of blog fodder. Say that three times fast. The other day, I was asked a question about cyber cheating. Namely, a young lady found out...

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Q: How do I know that everything my boyfriend tells me is for real?

A: You don't. It's a matter of trust. It also depends on your worldview. Some people are naturally suspicious and won't ful...

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Q: My husband has a profile on an "adult friend finder" site. I asked him about it and he completely denies knowing anything, and said it may have come from a porn site he registered for. But the profile info is pretty specific. What should I do? He's never given me any other reason to doubt him.

A: I'm sorry, but your husband is full of it. Why would a porn site automatically sign him up for a sex-finder site? It doe...

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Q: Beauty, money, and a "fairy-tale" wedding do not promise a successful marriage. Kim Kardashian filed for divorce today from Kris Humphries after 72 days. I find it kind of sad. I don't follow those people or their reality show, but just the fact that the sanctity and meaning of marriage is so trashy nowadays.Thoughts?

A: There is only one thing that promises a successful marriage. "Love, honor and cherish." All else is meaningless BS. Yeah...

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Q: Ever been to or heard of a dayglow paint party? My boyfriend wants to go with his friend and it looks like a bunch of girls wearing nothing will be there. Please tell me it's more than that.

A: Dayglow paint party? Can't say that I have. Off to the old Google machine...Huh. So this is a thing? Looks like a rave w...

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Q: My bf kissed a chick when he was drunk at a college party. He told me two days later, wildly apologetic & convinced he'd screwed things up permanently. We are two hours away from each other, going to different schools. I love him. What should I do?

A: What he did was wrong, obviously. I can't tell you what to do, but here are some things to think about. One, we all scre...

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Q: How do you tell if a guy is genuinely and truly a good and nice guy? It's so hard to tell if they're faking it until they gain my trust.

A: You do like asking the difficult ones, don't you. Most guys who seem to be a good and nice guy, are exactly what they se...

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Q: Dear BFF, you just answered a question and said "When dating anybody you have to put your trust in them." And you're right - dating does require trust. But on the other hand, you can't control another person's actions and you can never really be 100% certain of any fallible human being, so what is a girl to do???

A: You treat like normal and move through life assuming and hoping for the best. You basically have two choices in life: 1)...

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Q: My bf got a txt where the first half of the txt pops when its received. I was taking him his phone&read, "can we meet after my kids have gone to bed?..."-female. He says that she's going through a divorce&she asked him to help move stuff out of her house. For the first time, I'm questioning his honesty. What to do?

A: You're right to question it too. Who moves stuff OUT of a house while their kids are sleeping? You can't leave. It isn't...

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Q: I went though my boyfriend's old computer files and came across old pictures of his exes and him with his exes. I'm upset because when he was transferring files a few months ago I thought he would have deleted those pictures. I was devastated when I found them. Should I be?

A: If you're devastated, that's your thing. I'm not going to tell you how to feel. But you're not entirely without fault he...

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Earning Trust Is Easy. Keeping It Is Hard.

A few people have asked for a post on this from the FB page. Not "Trusting Your Instincts," as GBFF covered that perfectly just this week (If you have not yet read that, do so right now. Dude totally nails...

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Women Plain Don't Trust Their Own Instincts

Hyperbolic and generalizing as that title may be, I'm starting to believe that trust issues and women are more synonymous than Donald Trump and his toupé. I used to get upset when I ran across a woman with trust issues but in...

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Q: I check my guys phone records and noticed that he blatantly lies to me about talking to certain girls and how often. What should I do?

A: See, this is why I warn people against snooping. Now you've got a problem on your hands that has nothing to do with his ...

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Q: I have somewhat of a mini celebrity for a fiance. I'm an average looking girl who is constantly trying to improve herself. However he has to continuously work with models and gorgeous actresses, and it's definitely taking a toll on my self-esteem. Any advise on how I can become more comfortable with these situations?

A: So, he is around models and actresses all day, yet you are his fiance? He is with you. Not them. Not just for sex, but b...

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Q: snooping right or wrong?

A: In the immortal words of Lex Luthor: WRONG!!! Joking aside, snooping is always, always wrong, and it's one step below ch...

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Should virgins shave? Should cell phones be secret? Should I date a basic a-hole? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

I'm a virgin - should I shave down below? He says he needs space - should I worry? I want to see my guy's phone - should he hand it over? He was born a woman but feels like a...

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Q: If my trusted partner makes it clear that all of his past sexual experiences were safe (condoms, etc), should I probe further? I feel like I'd be intruding on his personal relations with other people, but I'm genuinely curious. What do you think?

A:  Curious is one thing, terrified that your man's penis is a loaded STD weapon is another. This whole subject can be a di...

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Does girl-on-girl cheating count? GuySpeak Group Question!

According to a new study, a man is WAY more likely to forgive a woman if she cheats on him with another woman than if she cheats on him with a man. Guys -- how would you feel about your lady...

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