Tag: Trust Issues

Q: My boyfriend used to be a total player---so please help!!! We've been together a year and a half, and he cheated about a year ago. I can't get over it, I think about it constantly. I always think he's doing it again. Should I break up with him and take time to myself? Or do you think we can work it out?

A: This seems to be a matter of trust, or, rather, total lack thereof. Before you do anything, you need to talk to your boy...

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Q: Do you think an ex lover that left his girl to the girl's best friend and probably later broke up with the girl's best friend to be with his ex which was his first girl - can be trusted?

A: Wow, this is like the dating version of an algebra problem. And hell no, he can't be trusted. Dumping somebody for their...

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Q: I met my boyfriend online. I want to do a background check on him for peace of mind for me & my family. How do I ask him if that's ok? Its understandable, right?

A: Yes, it's understandable. You work for the FBI and he's applying for a job, right? No? It's just your boyfriend? Then do...

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Q: If a man has been cheated on in all of his previous relationships, will he ever learn to trust his (faithful) fiance fully or will he always have unwarranted suspicions?

A: Every previous girlfriend cheated on him? Yikes. Remind me to never get on the same plane as this guy, cause that is som...

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Q: If my husband wants to go to his class reunion without me am I asking for trouble? He keeps asking people about the marital status of the girl who owns the bar where it is being held, and says she was just the sweetest thing in high school. Am I just being too paranoid?

A: Yeah, that's not cool. Why doesn't he want you to go? The whole point of a class reunion is to show your former classmat...

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Q: I found text msgs between my husband and his ex. He told her about me, but he also told her he loved her. When confronted he said that he hurt her badly and needed her forgiveness to move on, and she wouldn't talk to him if she knew we were married, but that he loves me and has never cheated. Should I believe him?

A: Well, I don't think he handled this well, but it all sounds pretty legit. He should have told you he was communicating w...

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Q: I was snooping and discovered that my boyfriend and his ex exchanged naked pics when we first started dating nine months ago. Do I get angry or forget about it?

A: Forget about it. For starters, it's old news, and the statute of limitations ran out months ago. What would you accompli...

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Q: What does it mean when a guy walks out the house to talk on the phone?

A: It means you really need to stop trying to listen in on his calls. You could stand to be a bit more subtle when eavesdro...

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Q: I just found out my boyfriend e-mailed a naked pic he had taken of me to his friend. He claims it was an accident and he meant to send another pic. What should I do? He got offended when I told him he's full of shit.

A: He's full of shit. That's why he got offended; he knows you are right. Accident, my ass. He was showing off to his frien...

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Q: I snoop on my boyfriend and it needs to stop. I realize that what I'm doing is horrible. I'm betraying his trust and its no way to treat the man that I love. I also understand that If I go looking for trouble, I'll find it. The problem is that I can't quit. What can I do to stop this destructive, crazy girl behavior?

A: Yep, you are looking for trouble. Specifically, he's going to dump you for being paranoid and untrustworthy. Why do you ...

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Q: My boyfriend acts shady around me when he gets a phone call or a text message. He says he has issuses with privacy and that he doesn't like people knowing what he's doing all the time. Do I have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from me?

A: No. You don't have the right to feel like he's hiding another girl from you. He, however, has a right to privacy. He has...

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