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Q: ok i met this guy i was a virgo with no sexual experience but we talk it out n i wanted to have that experience with him...but when it came to actual act, it wasnt really what i expected he took me from behind at 1st and there was no foreplay even though it was my FIRST time..what does that mean? i expected more

A: It sounds like your Romeo went out of his way to make your first experience positively lame and unsupportive. Is doggy s...

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Q: I'm a virgin but my bf is VERY experienced. Will sex hurt him because I'm a virgin?

A: I'm going to assume this wasn't a typo and answer the question as I read it. NO NO NO, your vagina - - tight as it may b...

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Q: My bf and I have been dating for years, still haven't had sex-we both want to, but the time is never 'right' (he says). Last week we were in the middle of a hot makeout session, losing clothes, etc. And he stops, tells me that he's sorry but he needs a nap. wtf? I know guys get tired, but this happens A LOT with us.

A: You are right to think this situation is a bit off. The logical progression of a make out session is not nappy-nap time,...

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Q: As a virgin I am not sure what people are talking about when people speak of sexual incompatibility- am I naive to think that two people with enough romantic live can learn to please the other?

A: When it comes to sex, there's "incompatibility" and there's incompatibility. "Don't thrust so fast." "Why don't you ever...

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Dating Multiple Dudes, Dating While Virgin and 'Dating' Your Ex: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

What time of day's best to send naughty pics? When should I tell guys I'm a 25-year-old virgin?  Why is hooking up with my ex so bad? How come my "committed" BF still has online dating profiles? Who do I...

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Q: How do i tell the guy im dating that im a virgin. It feels akward to just say "btw i never had sex before". what is the proper time and way to tell him?

A: The proper time to tell him is 4pm. That way he will already have gone fox hunting, had his afternoon bourbon and read a...

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Should virgins shave? Should cell phones be secret? Should I date a basic a-hole? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

I'm a virgin - should I shave down below? He says he needs space - should I worry? I want to see my guy's phone - should he hand it over? He was born a woman but feels like a...

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My Favorite Unanswered Questions Of 2010

Before it stopped publishing in 1992, American Film magazine used to run an annual feature called "The Top 10 Unproduced Screenplays Of ___ (whatever year it was)." In the article, various studio execs and agents and producers would heap mountains...

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Crying During Sex, Playboy Bunny Roommies & Biracial Dating: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

What do the guys think of virgins-til-marriage? (Pity.) Chicks who cry during sex? (Terror.) Playboy Bunny rommies? (Inappropriate thoughts.) White guys dating black girls? (Respect.) Freaking out over meeting the friends? (Lame x 10.) Find out the rest of the...

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Q: Me & my husband just got married, but he is a virgin & I'm not (I have a 3 yr old... which he loves like his own). I want to have sex, but, he told me he is scared that he will suck (we are 23) and he thinks something is wrong with him. How do i get him to relax, so we can have an intimate and great experience?

A: If he is truly a virgin then the first several times are probably going to be great for him but total duds for you. In o...

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Q: If you're a virgin but the guy doesn't know will he be able to tell that you are the first time you have sex with him? Or is it possible he wont even notice?

A: It's possible he won't notice, especially if he's color blind and confuses the blood that will most likely make an appea...

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Q: If you're a virgin and your boyfriend has had sex do you think he'll cheat on you ?

A: I would say there is a very good chance that your boyfriend will seek sex elsewhere should you continue to hold on to yo...

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Q: Horseback riding can wear at a girl's vagina after many years. I'm a virgin, and I'm worried my boyfriend won't believe me...do guys notice/care about an intact hymen?

A: Okay, NEVER use the phrase "wear at a girl's vagina" again in any context. Reading those words in that order made me mak...

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Q: What do you do if you're Thirteen and haven't had your first kiss?

A: Continue being thirteen. Wait a few years. Play Polly Pocket, watch the JoBros and chill the hell out. Your first kiss i...

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Q: What do guys think if you tell them you're a virgin (and it is the truth) after dating a little bit- runaway because you're a "prude", or are they willing to stick it out?

A: For the purposes of this answer, I'm assuming you're, at most, thirty-five. Beyond that, the revelation that you're a vi...

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Q: What do guys honestly think about girls who are virgins in their early 20s? Is it a total turn-off? Do they think they're prude? I can't help but feel insecure about it, even if I haven't found the right person to share that experience with.

A: Let's see disease free with a solid reputation. Sounds pretty good on paper, however, I wouldn't be too worried about wh...

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Q: Do guys actually get paranoid about being a virgin's "first"?

A: Yes, they get very paranoid. That's a LOT of pressure. Imagine if you gave someone their first slice of pizza and it was...

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Q: Dear John, I am getting married soon and I am virgin and never been more than... half naked with a guy. How can I be sexy for husband on our wedding night?

A: Don't worry, you're sexy. That you even care about being sexy for your future husband is proof of sexiness. Other than t...

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Q: Do guys care if a girl chooses to wait till marriage for sex? Basically, is it a deal breaker for most guys?

A: I know some guys will tell a woman that they respect her desire to wait until marriage for sex. In fact, we respect the ...

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