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The ELNA BAKER VIDEO INTERVIEW Series: Part I

Elna Baker wears many backpacks. She's an award winning author, a stand-up comic, a talent show host, part of Ira Glass's acclaimed This American Life team, and a former Mormon. Yes, in truth we all wear many bags, but something...

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Q: When did you lose your virginity?

A: I lost my virginity on July 14th. Batsille Day, but of course known to most simply as the day Billy the Kid was shot and...

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The 11 Most Popular Questions On GuySpeak

By popular I mean the questions we get asked over and over again. Most of these have already been answered here numerous times, but I'll take another stab at it.11. "Is my boyfriend cheating on me?"We would know this how?10....

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Q: Female masturbation: yea or nay? I'm a 20yr old virgin in college who hasn't even had her first kiss yet. I pleasure myself because I don't want to just give up my virginity. Thoughts?

A: Yea, all the way. Masturbation is normal. I assure you that you aren't the only woman on your dorm hall doing it, nor ar...

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Q: Will a guy cherish a woman more if she gives her first time to him?

A: No, probably not. Some will, but in my experience, it doesn't seem to make a long-term difference for most. If you are c...

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Q: I'm 22, graduating soon, and moving to NYC. Not only am I a virgin, but I have never done anything below the belt. Is it just me, or will this not be acceptable outside of school, in real world dating situations?

A: Plenty of people move to New York City virgins. Just think -- not only will you moving to the Big Apple, but you'll be h...

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Q: I'm a virgin and I'm literally terrified of having sex with my boyfriend. He's not pressuring me into it, but I just really don't think I'll ever be comfortable enough with my body or anyone else to actually have sex with them. The thought of it makes me want to cry and I feel weak. How can I get over this?

A: Literally terrified and sex don't belong in the same sentence, let alone the same bed. You don't need to make a declarat...

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Q: What does "popping your cherry" mean? Losing your virginity or orgasming? I'm not sure and too embarrassed to ask anyone, lol

A: Dear I'm not sure and too embarrassed to ask anyone, lol, Popping your cherry means, "breaking"/tearing your hymen. The ...

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Q: I'm a virgin and I'm literally terrified of having sex with my boyfriend. He's not pressuring me into it, but I just really don't think I'll ever be comfortable enough with my body or anyone else to actually have sex with them. The thought of it makes me want to cry and I feel weak. How can I get over this?

A: I'm glad he's not pressuring you and respects your feelings. That's a great thing to have, especially in your situation....

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Q: I'm 19 and a virgin, I went to an all girls school and never had any boyfriends or anything. I met a guy at college and we've been seeing each other for a couple of weeks, I know sex will be expected very soon, Do guys get turned off by virgins? When should I tell him?

A: First things first: only have sex if you want to have sex. Don't do it because it's "expected" or because it's the fifth...

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Unanswered Questions Of The Months (August-September)

Some questions cannot--or should not--be answered.Why is it that my bf thinks it's okay to tell me about his poop and bowel movements, but every time I start telling him about my period he freaks out and says I'm being...

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Q: Okay so a year ago I was raped. It was a blur for me and it scarred me to get out there to other guys. I like this one guy and he asked if I was a virgin and I really didn't know what to say because I don't feel comfortable with him yet. Can I say I'm a virgin because I didn't know what I was doing when I was raped?

A: Yes, of course you can say you are a virgin. Rape is foremost an act of violence, not a sexual act. You were burglarized...

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Q: What should I expect of our "first time" if my boyfriend is a virgin and I'm not?

A: About 20 seconds. Thirty if you're lucky. First-time sex is notoriously awful. It usually improves with practice, though...

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Q: When is the right time to let a guy know that you are saving your virginity for marriage? I do not want to mislead anyone.

A: The right time to tell him is whenever you feel like telling him. Within reason, that is. Look, good for you for not wan...

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Q: So I'm hoping that as a "reformed player" you will have some insight here....I'm a sane and pretty 23 year old woman who is a virgin- my virginity is something I hold very dear, however I'm afraid that it somehow makes me "off the market" to even the most understanding guys, given my age. Is this true?

A: I get a lot of questions about virginity, and to be honest, it often seems a bigger deal to women than it does to men. T...

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Q: Virgins. How do guys feel about them?

A: It depends on the guy, honestly. Everybody was a virgin once, after all. You'll probably get a range of reactions. Some ...

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Q: When you’re on a first or second or third date with a girl, do you prefer she say up front that she isn’t going to sleep with you, or would you rather she set boundaries in the heat of the moment? (note: she WANTS you ... she just wants to wait, but not offend you)

A: You definitely do NOT want to wait until the heat of the moment. For one, I don't think it's fair to either of you to le...

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Don't Lose Your Virginity. Gain Sex.

Lately I've been getting a lot of questions about virginity; specifically, when the right time to lose it might be. I'm not sure if this onslaught of queries is due to Spring time blossoming, or the trailer for the new...

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Q: Why Would He Still Have The Boxers He Lost His Virginity In With The Girls Name Written On The Waistband While He's Dating Me? (He Just Now Threw Them Away)?

A: Is that the title of a country song? I'm just wondering about the caps. If so, I like it, though you might think about s...

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Is he playing you, planning on you or not so into you? GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

This week in class, we learned how a player seduces, how to get more PDA, how to tell a laid-back lad from a not-so-into-you-dude, how to move on from your first, how much is too much mystery and how to...

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