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Q: i had been telling my boyfriend to find a new job because i had a feeling they were going to fire him, but he never listened to me. he got fired and he is sad, but i dont want to say "i told you so" what do i do?

A: Well, don't say "I told you so." He knows you were right; he probably knew it when you suggested he look for another job...

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Q: So I'm a pastry chef. And I work at an Italian restaurant. They're very down to earth, genuine Italians who really don't care about much as long as you do your job. There is a server who I'm really vibing with. REALLY vibing with. Would it be weird for a chef to date a server? Even if we didn't really tell people?

A: Chef, server, busboy, dishwasher--is there some sort of hierarchy there that I'm not familiar with? The restaurant caste...

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Q: You're a man and so is my boss so in a man's opinion what is the acceptable number of days to take off work when you're going through a LTR breakup? I took yesterday off with absolutely no guilt because that was THE DAY of the breakup. But today I'm back at work and I can't concentrate AT ALL. OK to take another day?

A: That's between you and your boss. I'm sorry to hear that you are hurting, but every company is different and every boss ...

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Q: I am friends w/ sexting a guy I work with. In 4 years, he's never mentioned his gf, and I know about her. Seems they're like roomies w/ bens - and all of his friends dislike her . I really like him, and we get along so well. How do I let him know how I feel? I am probably out of his league physically...but we do sext?

A: To be honest, this is a fractally bad idea: if you examine any part of it closely, you just see more reasons not to do i...

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Getting Over Him, Getting Out of a Wedding and Getting Him to Commit. GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

How do you get over a guy who isn't into you? How do you ask him if he's serious about you? How do I balance work with true love? How do I handle a guy who compares me to his...

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Q: Graduated in May. Smart, plenty of internships. Wanting to go into writing. Interning again, but still unemployed. Highly disheartened and trying SO hard to get a job. Help? Tips? =(

A: Keep interning, but pick a place that you like. Is there a website, magazine, TV show, book publisher, etc., that you lo...

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How Should You Greet Your Mate After Work? Guy Group Question

According to some new research by eHarmony, the stories you choose to tell your partner after a long day at the office -- and the way your partner responds -- can greatly impact your relationship. A study found that sharing...

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Q: I study computer science. I'm the only girl in my lab. I feel uncomfortable when I wear a skirt or a tank top because I'm afraid they might judge me on my physical appearance instead of my work. My boyfriend says I shouldn't worry. What do you think?

A: I agree with your boyfriend. If the guys in your lab are going to judge you based on your appearance, they are jerks and...

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Are you more productive at work when you're dating someone? GuySpeak Group Question!

It's National Singles Week! And according to a new study by Zoosk, 64% of single men say they're more productive at work when they're dating someone. However, 53% of single women say they're LESS productive at the office when they're...

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Link Rodeo: Post-Earthquake Dates, Men Who Are Afraid of Periods, Zombie Wedding, and More

Rounding up dating and relationship news from around the Web. -- Friend of GuySpeak Emily Gordon offers eight tips for keeping work from destroying your relationship. (Huffington Post) -- Did you feel that little tremor yesterday? Then check out some...

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How to feel better ... after a breakup, after he trash talks you and before you go down on him: GuySpeak's Best of the Week!

My coworker is hot for me, but the feeling's not mutual. I'm hot for my BF, but he's trashing me to his coworker. He broke up with me and I don't know how to go on. I go on and...

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Q: My boyfriend is an independent photographer and I'm the director of marketing for a large company. He could use help with his website and soliciting business in general, but he refuses my help. He's fine about me making more money, but apparently not fine with me helping him. Should I keep trying or just let him be?

A: Let him be. This sounds like a pride thing. He wants to feel like he's in control of his own career. As a freelancer, he...

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Q: I've started doing online webcam modeling as a way to pay my bills. My job just wasn't cutting it. I've been talking to a very sweet dorky guy and I'm interested in him. He asked what I do for a living and I made a joke to change subjects. How do I tell him without blowing my chances?

A: I would just be honest and tell him it's something you're doing to make ends meet. It isn't a career, but something you ...

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Q: This guy at work figured out who I liked and said some pretty perverted stuff about it. What do I do if he goes straight to the source and tells my crush?

A: You won't have to worry about it, because pretty soon this jackass will never talk about your personal business again. W...

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Q: Help, W-A. My boss is almost twice my age, got the feeling he was into me, and my coworkers just told me he's "in love" with me. I was so wigged out I literally went under the table at the restaurant. We do NOT work. I feel uncomfortable with the thought of working with him, what now?

A: Before you get too excited, are you sure you believe your co-workers? Are they speculating? Pulling your leg? Exaggerati...

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Q: Help! My boyfriend just lost his job. What can I do to make him feel better? Am I just supposed to be there for him or do I try to do something to help him? I am at a loss right now!

A: Sorry to hear that. Lots of that going around and it sucks. I read an article once that compared a man's feelings after ...

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Q: ASAP! Please! This is prob really ridiculous & crazy BUT this guy just called my office & sounded ADORABLE (he's British. Yes, it IS that easy.) and we can't offer him a job but I took his contact info anyway. Is it super SUPER weird if I call him after work and see if he's down for a blind date? Say no please say no...

A: Sorry to burst your crush bubble, but I'm not sure asking him out is such a good idea. For one thing, your employer migh...

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Q: My boyfriend is a physics major, I'm a fashion major. One of his good friends (a girl who is "in love" with him) is a physics major too. I can't help but worry that over the years he'll become attracted to her since they have that similar interest.

A: Highly doubtful. If my eighth grade science teacher taught me anything, it's that opposites attract. The fact that your ...

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On Not Seeing Your Wife, Like, Ever

My wife is currently asleep at 3 in the afternoon in the next room. That's because she just got off a 30-hour shift on medical rotation, her first ever. I haven't seen her in a week, and I'll probably have...

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What's the most attractive job for women? GuySpeak Group Question!

OK guys, in honor of Labor Day, what's the most attractive job a woman can have? Do you only date women who have careers outside the house, or are you cool with ladies who want to stay home (or eventually...

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